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Does My Child Have Separation Anxiety? 

separation-anxiety2During the first two years of life, separation anxiety can be a normal part of a child’s development, as they are forming secure attachments and learning about their routine and environment. During this stage children begin to learn that even though mom or dad are out of sight, they will return. This stage often ends around the age of two, and is considered a normal part of childhood development. However, after the age of two, it can become a more significant issue for families, and children. Parents of children with separation anxiety often notice and report severe distress, constant and extreme worrying, difficulties in school and other activities, and frequent physical complaints. Separation anxiety can occur at any age, but often separation anxiety will appear in pre-school and elementary school aged children. However, new situations, negative experiences, or significant changes, such as a move or new school, can bring forward the symptoms of separation anxiety which can cause the child significant distress when separating from the parent.

Common symptoms of separation anxiety can include:

  • Excessive distress when separated from parent or caregiver
  • Constant worry that something terrible will happen to their loved one
  • Fear of an unpredicted event that could lead to permanent separation
  • Nightmares about separation
  • Refusal to go to school or activities because of the fear of separation
  • Repeated physical complaints- “butterflies” or stomachaches, sweating, fast heartbeat, dizziness, etc.
  • Constant shadowing of the loved one
  • Avoidance of activities or school
  • Learning difficulty
  • Difficulty concentrating

Some risk factors include:

  • Trauma
  • Changes in the environment (moving to a new home, divorce, death in the family)
  • Anxious children

child separation anxiety, orlando separation anxiety counselingAnxiety counselors at Groundwork Counseling in Orlando have found that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can be a very effective treatment for separation anxiety disorder for children over the age of seen. CBT helps client identify how their emotions and feelings of anxiousness are influenced by their thought patterns. CBT helps educate children, and will help children begin to face their feared situations, and learn healthy coping skills. At Groundwork, our Orlando Child Separation Anxiety Counselors help children establish healthy and
balanced self-talk, as well as develop a perception of personal strength and increased independence.
They will also learn to recognize specific reactions when they are feeling anxious and will be taught ways to manage and reduce these reactions.

With children under the age of seven, play therapy is also used to help children overcome separation anxiety. Younger children often have difficulties verbalizing their thoughts, so play can be a wonderful age-appropriate means for communication and skill development. During play therapy for separation anxiety, the therapist uses a variety of toys, games, art materials, and sand tray therapy, to help the child process their emotions, highlight personal strengths, and develop increased independence. This method of counseling can help the therapist to validate the child’s feelings, as well as help the child begin to develop age-appropriate coping skills and communication techniques. They then help the child create alternative ways of dealing with these feelings.

At GroundWork Counseling in Orlando, our child therapist often works with children struggling with separation anxiety. Our counselors are here to help support your family, and help your child overcome their separation anxiety from a strength based and solution-focused perspective.


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